Theory of Relativity by Mukul Kumar
Hello Everyone !!
Hope everything is going fine in your lives.
So the title seems a bit weird "Theory of Relativity" , but don't worry I will not take you into complex science at all this is something different.
Ok let me ask you a question , How many of you get happy when you get good marks and your friend too gets good marks ?
Let me tell you 50% of you don't feel happy because this is common human mentality that we feel happy only when something good happens with us more than that what happens with our close ones.
Now consider a simple example you get good marks but your friend fails , then you don't feel that bad because you are happy that you got good marks , not to mention that there always exist some exceptions. Now suppose you get good marks but it is less than that of your friend , here also you are not happy as something better has happened with someone other than you .
So , I hope you got what I was trying to explain in todays world you don't get happy or upset because of yourself , but you get "relatively" happy or sad by comparing yourself to others. You compare that the good that happened with you is relatively more than what happened with other.
So let me tell you that by this way you could get a momentarily happiness and satisfaction but at a time this habit of yours will upset you definitely and may also depress you because every time the good may not happen with you , everyone's chance comes.
You need to come out of this illusive happiness and know the reality , accept whatever comes in your part. "Don't let others' control your feelings , you are the sole creator of your emotions".
There is no "Relativity" in feelings , its either positive or negative and this totally depends on your view of the situation. You create the good and bad for you then why give the credit to others by comparing yourself.
"Believe in yourself , you are unique."
-Mukul
Hope everything is going fine in your lives.
So the title seems a bit weird "Theory of Relativity" , but don't worry I will not take you into complex science at all this is something different.
Ok let me ask you a question , How many of you get happy when you get good marks and your friend too gets good marks ?
Let me tell you 50% of you don't feel happy because this is common human mentality that we feel happy only when something good happens with us more than that what happens with our close ones.
Now consider a simple example you get good marks but your friend fails , then you don't feel that bad because you are happy that you got good marks , not to mention that there always exist some exceptions. Now suppose you get good marks but it is less than that of your friend , here also you are not happy as something better has happened with someone other than you .
So , I hope you got what I was trying to explain in todays world you don't get happy or upset because of yourself , but you get "relatively" happy or sad by comparing yourself to others. You compare that the good that happened with you is relatively more than what happened with other.
So let me tell you that by this way you could get a momentarily happiness and satisfaction but at a time this habit of yours will upset you definitely and may also depress you because every time the good may not happen with you , everyone's chance comes.
You need to come out of this illusive happiness and know the reality , accept whatever comes in your part. "Don't let others' control your feelings , you are the sole creator of your emotions".
There is no "Relativity" in feelings , its either positive or negative and this totally depends on your view of the situation. You create the good and bad for you then why give the credit to others by comparing yourself.
"Believe in yourself , you are unique."
-Mukul
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