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Hi Guys !! Let's straight away start with the last article in our series "3 Mistakes of Everyone's Life" and the third and final mistake being Emotion. Like Greed and Fear, Emotion is the common mistake everyone of us makes. Sometimes in emotion you do things which may not be right and sometimes you don't do things which are actually right. In both these cases what stops you or compels you to do such thing is your emotion. For eg :- A child demands mobile phone or a bike for say from his parents when actually there is no need but sometimes he is able to make his parents do that by emotionally blackmailing them. The result of this process could sometimes be disastrous, in a case where your child suffers an accident with the bike. In today's generation Emotion has just become a matter of joke. Today's young generation makes relationships based on emotions and they go till the extent after which they realise they have done a mistake...

Hi Guys, Was away for quite a long, hope you all are doing well and now let's continue with our mistakes by the way 😁😁 In the last blog we discussed about Greed now let's talk about "Fear" which is the second most common mistake that everyone do in their life. At some point or the other you are afraid, you are scared either expecting something or of doing something. For eg:- Students are worried about how their exams will go before the start of the exam and later they are worried about the results. Let me ask you Does this fear do any good to you ? Does it in any way profit you ? The answer is of course a big No, rather fear always does you a loss. Let me define fear for you " Fear is nothing but a thought process of your brain that is inhibitory or unpleasant to you" in other words Fear is a barrier created by you for yourself." And everyone of us has fear even the strongest person has fear of something. So now what's the soluti...

Hi Guys !! Everything OK , Hope So.... Everyone of us commit many mistakes in our life some are intentional and some we do unknowingly , but mistakes are mistakes. But do you know there are some common mistakes which all of us do in our lives. These mistakes are namely ; 1) Greed 2 )Fear 3) Emotion These are mistakes we all do but I'm sure many of you would not agree with it but if you think on it you will definitely figure it out that at some point or the other of your life you have committed these mistakes. These mistakes apply to everyone from a child to an experienced elderly. Everyone of us have greed for something or the other and this is the biggest mistake we commit . You spend your whole life calculating profit loss ratios and in this process you forget the profit loss statement of life which states that "The more you give , the more you get " . This is not some kind of a spiritual baba statement kind of thing its practical and I will give you...

Hi Guys , It has been long since this blog got updated, but I have got a topic to talk on now. A very sensitive but a common problem with many of us is "Inferiority Complex". There are many people who are low in confidence all the time considering themselves inferior than others be it any field studies , job and in general about some qualities which others have better than them. Such people are unable to give their 100 % because they are not confident on their potential or I must say that they never knew and discovered their true potential. They never saw themselves with their eyes they always visualised themselves by others vision. Such people always care what others think about them . So let me tell you guys that what matters the most is what you think about yourself because that decides what you can do or what you are capable to do. No one other than you can tell what you can actually do. Inferiority just exists in mind , the society has labelled a particul...

Hi Everyone , Guys lets talk about a topic which everyone wants to achieve in their life . And most of them want to achieve it as soon as possible and with the least effort, which we call finding short cuts. More than 90% of you would have at sometime or the other of your life till now searched of things like "How to achieve Success ?" , "What are the guaranteed steps to Success ?" etc.. and the results you find are about those 10% people who have achieved success on their own. So let me tell you success is never achieved by accident neither by chasing it rather it is achieved by just putting efforts without caring about the result. Don't take it otherwise. Am saying put effort and don't care of the results , Am not saying that don't expect the result because without expectation you wouldn't put your full effort. What Am saying is success is a journey not the destination where you go and stop. There are some simple fundamental steps to...

Hi Everyone !! Back after long but with something interesting. In today's so called modern era people are very insecure about their image because today no one live for themselves , they live for others. They don't understand the fact that they are not here to prove themselves to anyone . People spend their whole life thinking what others think about them but believe me at the end you will come to know that actually no one ever thought about you it was just a mere illusion for which you wasted your beautiful life. So friends the time has not passed much , realise the reality and come out of the illusion because you are here for yourself not for others . The day when you realise this your real life starts that is totally yours and you have all the right to live it the way you like. No one else could affect you if you are happy with what you have . You need to have good image of you in your own eyes and you will have a good image in everyone's eyes. Today people d...

Hi Everyone !! It's Mukul here and this time I have come up with something that is for students and their parents primarily. I'm from India so will talk about the Indian scenario but I think that the topic I'm going to talk about is same for most of the students all across the globe. The topic guys is " Comparison " ,  The most important reason behind a student getting demotivated or depressed is comparison. This is the thing that haunts the student the most be it during their school or college life. If you don't perform better ,your parents or your relatives or someone close to you in spite of providing you moral support start comparing you with other students who have done good. It's a very common practice now a days and this has led to the wrong programming of the students mind too . Now a days even students not only see their result but also of their friends to compare their result and if you are better you are boosted up and if not then depr...

Hello Everyone !! Hope everything is going fine in your lives. So the title seems a bit weird "Theory of Relativity" , but don't worry I will not take you into complex science at all this is something different. Ok let me ask you a question , How many of you get happy when you get good marks and your friend too gets good marks ? Let me tell you 50% of you don't feel happy because this is common human mentality that we feel happy only when something good happens with us more than  that what happens with our close ones. Now consider a simple example you get good marks but your friend fails , then you don't feel that bad because you are happy that you got good marks , not to mention that there always exist some exceptions. Now suppose you get good marks but it is less than that of your friend , here also you are not happy as something better has happened with someone other than you . So , I hope you got what I was trying to explain in todays world you...

Hi Everyone !! One of my friends now a days talks a lot about the word "Quiz" , So a striking thought came to mind which I felt to share with you all. Friends don't you think life is itself a quiz where finding the answers to various questions we end it !! The quiz of life is a very interesting one where you don't need to learn and give the answers it's a journey where you explore the answers to various questions and in this process you build your way to your ambitions , desires or goals. Yes you can say that by finding the answers to various questions you become successful and lead a happy life. There are two kind of people in this so called "Quiz" 1) Those who find answer to various questions and move ahead. 2) Those who are unable or find it difficult to find the answers to questions put by life.Now the second category of people could be further divided as 1) Those who quit after not finding the answers at once and they are called "L...

You should be thankful for everything and everyone you have in your life. You should appreciate their positive side rather than critisizing the negative one. Because these small things add up to the HAPPINESS in you life and that's the biggest success you acheive in your life. So come let's Thank Everything & Everyone for being there in your life and let them know that they contribute in someway or the other in making you happy. https://youtu.be/4qT0st9dvC8

Hi once again , * kindly go through my last blog "change" before reading further . In my last blog I started about change and I hope you understood what exactly change is and how do you observe it. Now lets continue it by asking one more question Is change necessary or you should not change ? So keeping in mind what is change we would proceed. So the first thing is that CHANGE is very integral part of your life infact our lives , its change that has made us what we are because evolution is a form of gradual change which enabled a single cell to make a complete man . The world around you is constantly changing infact the planet earth on which we live is changing all the time by rotating and revolving around the sun.  So by the above examples one thing is clear that change is a necessary part of you life. I can't force the ones who don't want to change but hope could change their thinking. Now if change is necessary in our life then how and what t...

Hi Everyone !! Let's start with a question What do you think about change , what is  it's image or concept about it in your mind ? Ok , so you keep this thing in your mind and read it further and at last try to assess that were you correct or there was some change in your view about "Change". So let's start .....  Change is a very vast thing which cant be explained in just a matter of words. Before going into what change is you have to know that change occurs at three levels i.e. Physical , Mental and Spiritual. The most important of which is mental change which could affect both physical as well as spirutual levels of change. Now change is just an alteration in simple words , its ypur deviation from one thing to another . So what we understood is " the difference between two states is change ". Now this point is very deep . Basically by measuring the difference between two states we are quantifying change it could be very large as well as ...

In a large southern city there is a magnificent new shopping center which stands on the former city garbage dump. For over a century no one saw this location as anything but the "garbage dump." About twenty-five years ago, however, some progressive-minded citizens started "seeing" that location as a beautiful new shopping center. Immediately they stopped dumping garbage and started hauling good, clean fill dirt and dumping it over the century-old garbage. They did this until a solid foundation was prepared. It was on this foundation that they built a magnificent new shopping center. But really this shopping center is built on garbage, isn't it? I tell this story because the chances are that over a period of time, people have been dumping "garbage" into your mind. What you must understand, however, is it doesn't really matter if garbage has been dumped into your mind in the past. In fact, it doesn't even matter if others, thro...

Cockroach Theory  A beautiful speech by Sundar Pichai - an IIT-MIT Alumnus and Global Head Google . The cockroach theory for self development. At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant. Sipping my coffee and watching t...

Hi everyone!! There are two ways of living life either you keep on chasing your dreams or you attract your dreams towards yourself. The difference between these two is what makes a man either "self-sufficient" or "dependent". Most of the people run for what they want and in the process they loose many things in the way. Whereas some just work for what they want and they get it but these people in the process make many experiences which makes them what we call self - sufficient. The first category of people are no less than a donkey , working day and night without any knowledge of whats going in the surrounding.and the second category of people are those who live the way they want they know what is required to acheive their goal but along with it gain all the experiences required to live a smooth life , handle different situations and open new ways for them to come out of problems.For them life is a learning experience and for the chasers life is a race. I...

A man’s favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice. He can’t pull it out no matter how hard he tries. He therefore decides to bury it alive. Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it. More soil is poured. It shakes it off and steps up. The more the load was poured, the higher it rose. By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures. After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES.