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Hi friends, Back after a long time but your constant support kept coming to our blog and page.                         So I was sitting last evening having my tea a thought struck to my mind. The thought that why people are always full of excuses. From a child not doing homework to a person doing job and not able to complete his project. It's a very common habit and almost we all have it, if anything slightly goes wrong because of us we are ready with a bag full of excuses. Excuses have become an integral part of our lives. But let me tell you one thing there is not a single successful person with excuses because they take the responsibility of what they have done. The real joy of success is when you have accepted all your failures in the past. By accepting your failures or mistakes you in no way become smaller rather it makes you to do introspection of the mistake by yourself, learn from it and come out better ...

Hi Guys  !! Hope you all are doing well in your lives. This blog is mainly for the students and the youth which is said to be the backbone of development in today's era. Have you ever heard of a soldier shooting himself in the war due to the fear of the enemy  ? Have to ever seen a runner quit a race in the middle because he is exhausted  ? if not then why do people kill themselves when they can't handle the pressure , especially the students. Now a days the suicide rate is increasing all over the globe and students are the major chunk of those committing suicide and behind the majority of these suicides is the pressure of study . the other being not getting job , not getting the life of your parent's expectations etc.. guys "life is that Warfield where you win only by the weapon of determination and self confidence" , these two are the only way to win this war called life and once you win the world is yours . " But there is a clause that in thi...

Hi guys !! As the series of mistakes gets over we are up again with yet new topic to discuss which is expectation. So guys let me tell you everyone one of us has some expectations either from others or ourselves. The expectations may be big or small, may be possible or sometimes even impossible. So the question here is Is keeping expectations right ? Before getting into the answer let's put forth some examples - Expecting excellent results from yourself and scoring average marks. -Expecting some special one to wish you on your b'day and that same person forgets and everyone       else wishes. -Expecting the same favour from someone you helped in the past the person doesn't........ And there could be many more in the list. So guys from all these examples what is the conclusion we get, it is that keeping expectations mostly gives us pain I guess. So the next question I ask is why are you giving yourself pain because someone else or you yourself didn't ...

Hi Guys !! Let's straight away start with the last article in our series "3 Mistakes of Everyone's Life" and the third and final mistake being Emotion. Like Greed and Fear, Emotion is the common mistake everyone of us makes. Sometimes in emotion you do things which may not be right and sometimes you don't do things which are actually right. In both these cases what stops you or compels you to do such thing is your emotion. For eg :- A child demands mobile phone or a bike for say from his parents when actually there is no need but sometimes he is able to make his parents do that by emotionally blackmailing them. The result of this process could sometimes be disastrous, in a case where your child suffers an accident with the bike. In today's generation Emotion has just become a matter of joke. Today's young generation makes relationships based on emotions and they go till the extent after which they realise they have done a mistake...

Hi Guys, Was away for quite a long, hope you all are doing well and now let's continue with our mistakes by the way 😁😁 In the last blog we discussed about Greed now let's talk about "Fear" which is the second most common mistake that everyone do in their life. At some point or the other you are afraid, you are scared either expecting something or of doing something. For eg:- Students are worried about how their exams will go before the start of the exam and later they are worried about the results. Let me ask you Does this fear do any good to you ? Does it in any way profit you ? The answer is of course a big No, rather fear always does you a loss. Let me define fear for you " Fear is nothing but a thought process of your brain that is inhibitory or unpleasant to you" in other words Fear is a barrier created by you for yourself." And everyone of us has fear even the strongest person has fear of something. So now what's the soluti...

Hi Guys !! Everything OK , Hope So.... Everyone of us commit many mistakes in our life some are intentional and some we do unknowingly , but mistakes are mistakes. But do you know there are some common mistakes which all of us do in our lives. These mistakes are namely ; 1) Greed 2 )Fear 3) Emotion These are mistakes we all do but I'm sure many of you would not agree with it but if you think on it you will definitely figure it out that at some point or the other of your life you have committed these mistakes. These mistakes apply to everyone from a child to an experienced elderly. Everyone of us have greed for something or the other and this is the biggest mistake we commit . You spend your whole life calculating profit loss ratios and in this process you forget the profit loss statement of life which states that "The more you give , the more you get " . This is not some kind of a spiritual baba statement kind of thing its practical and I will give you...

Hi Guys , It has been long since this blog got updated, but I have got a topic to talk on now. A very sensitive but a common problem with many of us is "Inferiority Complex". There are many people who are low in confidence all the time considering themselves inferior than others be it any field studies , job and in general about some qualities which others have better than them. Such people are unable to give their 100 % because they are not confident on their potential or I must say that they never knew and discovered their true potential. They never saw themselves with their eyes they always visualised themselves by others vision. Such people always care what others think about them . So let me tell you guys that what matters the most is what you think about yourself because that decides what you can do or what you are capable to do. No one other than you can tell what you can actually do. Inferiority just exists in mind , the society has labelled a particul...