Expectations - Never let go High !!
Hi guys !!
As the series of mistakes gets over we are up again with yet new topic to discuss which is expectation.
So guys let me tell you everyone one of us has some expectations either from others or ourselves. The expectations may be big or small, may be possible or sometimes even impossible.
So the question here is Is keeping expectations right ?
Before getting into the answer let's put forth some examples
- Expecting excellent results from yourself and scoring average marks.
-Expecting some special one to wish you on your b'day and that same person forgets and everyone else wishes.
-Expecting the same favour from someone you helped in the past the person doesn't........
And there could be many more in the list. So guys from all these examples what is the conclusion we get, it is that keeping expectations mostly gives us pain I guess. So the next question I ask is why are you giving yourself pain because someone else or you yourself didn't do what you expected ? Isn't it foolish.
Some people say keeping expectations from yourself is right but never keep expectations from someone else. I say never keep expectations from anyone not even from yourself. Because your expectations are most of the times higher than your ability.
If you think expecting things more than your ability makes you to increase your ability then you are wrong, its your aspirations its your zeal for your target which helps you explore your abilities.
I would not say expectations are not a right thing to keep but the point is your abilities should drive your expectations and not the opposite.
Half of your life's sufferings are because of irrational expectations, remove it from your life and it will become much more happier.
- Mukul Kumar
As the series of mistakes gets over we are up again with yet new topic to discuss which is expectation.
So guys let me tell you everyone one of us has some expectations either from others or ourselves. The expectations may be big or small, may be possible or sometimes even impossible.
So the question here is Is keeping expectations right ?
Before getting into the answer let's put forth some examples
- Expecting excellent results from yourself and scoring average marks.
-Expecting some special one to wish you on your b'day and that same person forgets and everyone else wishes.
-Expecting the same favour from someone you helped in the past the person doesn't........
And there could be many more in the list. So guys from all these examples what is the conclusion we get, it is that keeping expectations mostly gives us pain I guess. So the next question I ask is why are you giving yourself pain because someone else or you yourself didn't do what you expected ? Isn't it foolish.
Some people say keeping expectations from yourself is right but never keep expectations from someone else. I say never keep expectations from anyone not even from yourself. Because your expectations are most of the times higher than your ability.
If you think expecting things more than your ability makes you to increase your ability then you are wrong, its your aspirations its your zeal for your target which helps you explore your abilities.
I would not say expectations are not a right thing to keep but the point is your abilities should drive your expectations and not the opposite.
Half of your life's sufferings are because of irrational expectations, remove it from your life and it will become much more happier.
- Mukul Kumar
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