The MIND'S WAY !!

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Hello peeps !!

Back with another interesting article hope you like it.



Have you ever noticed that we always want things to go the way we want and when they don't we are disturbed or upset. If you have been through such situation this article is for you.


We always have a subconscious preformed opinion on how everything we are involved in should go. And this is not in our control this happens irrespective of the fact that you want it or not. This subconscious opinion is known as "LIKE" . Everyone of us in most of the cases like everything to go the way our mind wants it to.



This subconscious opinion is the reason which makes us want things to go according to that opinion and if it does not you are not happy and the worse part being that you can't control your feelings too ! You are ought to get upset if things not go your way.

Taking an example of relationships now a days, people want it to go the way they want and if it doesn't they get disturbed or upset and later it becomes the reason for their separation in many cases.

So guys the best way to avoid such condition is to let things go the way they are, you just need to be a part of it without putting much stress on your mind trying to control things YOUR WAY.

The day you realise that enjoying the process is more important than continuously thinking about the end result you will be always be happy and will learn to adapt to any situation.

If a rope is being pulled try not to hold back but to go with it which will protect you from being hurt and the rope from being broken. 

-MUKUL KUMAR

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